Sunday, August 19, 2007
10:30 PM

and perhaps this could be yet another entry on insecurity.
i would think that being insecurity is normal for almost every sane human being.
i'm not saying that its impossible to be comfortable in your own skin,
but however, i'm pretty much sure that at one point in time all of us have experienced some form of insecurity.

widening the gap, besides being insecure about our physical self which is a rather common issue,
people are also often plagued by their insecurities with regards to their interpersonal relationships.
then we also experience paranoia which i would also somewhat consider a form of insecurity.

i've always wondered, who is the more insecure one?
those who are single vs those who are attached.
those who are rich vs those who are poor.
in any case, the insecurities that both parties face differ.
we often find that irregardless of where they stand, both parties are still able to find faults and reasons for their own insecurities.
yet, the opposite party is able to find something to be envious of the other party.

the bottom line is, we humans are never satisfied with ourselves or what we have.
i wouldn't consider that a bad thing though.
in order to satisfy that, therefore we seek to improve ourselves or the situation.
i personally think we should thank our insecurities for keeping our egos down to earth.
however, this does not apply to everyone.

and in a sadistic way, i would say that our insecurities allows us to imagine the worst of each situation and therefore prepares us.
however, there is a limit to that.
excessively indulging in our insecurities has its negative effects, which i think most of us are familar with.

we are all insecure in our own ways,
yet i would think that it is up to us to use our intelligence to rationalize these thoughts.

unspoken, or spoken.
i do have my insecurities.
yet, this is only so because i love you
i know theres no link to post above.

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